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2018-08-29 22:26:39+00:00
If someone rejects you, there are others out there who are worth your attention.
Rejection is never more meaningful when it comes to romance, as it is more painful and distressing compared to other forms of rejection. As the common saying goes, there are a whole lot of people out there.
If someone rejected you, it’s not the end of the world. You don’t have to mope and vow you’ll never try dating again. And it doesn’t mean that you’re a despicable person who doesn’t deserve to be loved. Whoever rejected your advances may have had a good reason to do so, and it’s a cue for you to just accept it and move on.
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2018-08-29 22:23:28+00:00
Rediscover and appreciate your individuality.
Another reason why people get fazed by rejection is the idea that acceptance equals self-importance. People who fear rejection too much develop a people-pleasing attitude, which makes them agreeable to anything, even if they’re uncomfortable about it.
Remember that you are a unique individual, and that you know yourself better than anyone else. You should know better than to pattern your activities to suit everyone’s tastes. Time to flip the switch, and start doing the things you see fit for you, even if it leads to a few rejections.
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2018-08-29 22:21:51+00:00
You will never be truly alone.
As stated, one of the reasons why people fear rejection is because they believe that they will be isolated and unwanted. That is absolutely untrue. If you get rejected by a person you like, you still have your friends, associates, and family. Keep in mind that the people who will accept you greatly outnumber the people who will reject you. It’s all a matter of perspective.
Everyone has that core group of friends, or a best friend to support you in case things go south. And if you notice, it is that inner circle of friends that will always be there to join you for a drink if you get dumped or rejected by someone you like.
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2018-08-29 22:20:42+00:00
Rejection teaches life lessons.
People will normally think that rejection is all bad, with all the grief it causes. Most people fail to realize that rejection can be a personal learning experience. With a little optimism and open-mindedness, you can see that rejection is a way of people saying “no” and a sign for you to learn when to stop. All it takes is for you to learn from the experience, so that when the time comes when you’ll be confronted with a similar situation, you will be ready.
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2018-08-29 22:19:45+00:00
Rejection is a part of daily life.
Remember the saying: “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never harm me.” In the same manner, rejection will not kill you. You’ve been and will be rejected in the future, and you will still be here, alive and functioning.
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2018-08-29 22:18:48+00:00
The “fear” is merely a state of mind.
If you think about it, almost all people have experienced rejection at some point in their lives, yet they’re still very much alive and functioning. And surely you personally have rejected people too. It just happens.
If you give this a little thought, it is the fear itself and not the rejection that makes you vulnerable. If you lose the irrational “fear,” you will see rejection as something that’s a normal part of social interaction, thus helping you avoid the effects associated with these fears.
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2018-08-29 22:02:33+00:00
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2018-08-28 22:08:53+00:00
Tips for overcoming the fear of rejection
It is important to note that everyone fears rejection to some degree. It is when you develop an excessive fear that it will start to harm your relationships and self-perception. These tips can help you overcome these fears, in order to foster healthier relationships with others.
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2018-08-28 22:08:05+00:00
Vulnerability to manipulation.
People who fear rejection lose their assertiveness and their ability to stand up for themselves, making them fully dependent on a dominant peer figure. This makes them easily manipulated or used by the people whom they wish not to be rejected by.
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2018-08-28 22:07:26+00:00
Rigidity.
As a result of developing people-pleasing behavior, the person often feels constrained by the persona, where their activities are patterned for the people around them, the inability to voice out a particular idea or stance to avoid dissenting others’ ideas, and extreme susceptibility to peer pressure.
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2018-08-28 22:06:43+00:00
People-pleasing behavior.
In as much as we tend to be careful to please the people around us, people who overly fear rejection tend to put up with a persona meant to please everyone, up to the point of putting their own welfare behind other people. This also includes the difficulty to say “no” to other people for fear of being rejected.
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2018-08-28 22:02:31+00:00
How does fear of rejection affect people?
A fear of rejection can be gleaned from some of your overt behaviors, such as the following.
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2018-08-28 22:01:37+00:00
Rejection means being alone.
Getting rejected gives one the idea of being alone. Nobody wants to be isolated, so a person’s natural reaction to rejection is to avoid it.
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2018-08-28 22:00:39+00:00
People fear rejection because it diminishes your self-worth.
If you get rejected by someone, you tend to view yourself negatively. Getting rejected makes you think that you’re inadequate or unappealing to be associated with, in contrast to acceptance and approval, which boost our ego and confidence.
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2018-08-28 21:59:23+00:00
People fear rejection because it feels unpleasant.
Nobody wants to go through the embarrassment, the disappointment, and the self-questioning that happens after you get rejected. If you get rejected the first time, the first thing you ask is “why?” Is it your physical appearance? The manner of your dress? The way you talk? These are some of the questions that run inside your head when you get rejected.
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2018-08-24 22:06:37+00:00
Why do people fear rejection?
To start off, let us explore some of the main reasons people would go to great lengths to avoid being rejected.
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2018-08-24 22:05:45+00:00
One of the scariest things people anticipate is rejection, but getting over the fear of it will bring you one step closer to emotional maturity.
Aristotle once said, “Humans are social animals.” From the moment of our birth until the day we die, we will always long for the company of our fellow men. Our natural bonding behavior predisposes us to seek out and form new relationships, which could be as mundane as helping out a stranger we barely even know or something deeper like falling in love.
Considering that we love the company of other people, we would naturally want to belong and hate to be rejected. Rejection is being spurned or cut off from the association of others, or simply put, being “unwanted.” This is often one of a person’s greatest fears, and one would go to great lengths to avoid being rejected. This fear of rejection is one of the main driving forces that influence our social behavior, how we see ourselves, and how we form new relationships.
A life experience concerning rejection could make or break our perception of the issue. For instance, a person who got severely rejected could be traumatized and develop a sense of fear and insecurity towards rejection. Everybody fears rejection to some degree, but overly fearing rejection makes us adopt unhealthy behaviors in order to avoid it.
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2018-08-23 19:58:08+00:00
How You Can Overcome Your Fear of Being Rejected
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2018-08-22 21:43:02+00:00
These relationship rules could seem simple, but following them to the tee can make all the difference between a romantic relationship and a failed affair. If you really do treasure your love, make a difference with these tips. You won’t regret it!
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2018-08-22 21:42:18+00:00
Whatever works! No relationship is alike. Instead of learning from someone else’s relationship, learn from your own relationship’s successes and failures.
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2018-08-22 21:41:40+00:00
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2018-08-22 21:37:03+00:00
Be spontaneous with your affections. Don’t always wait for special occasions or moments to express your love. Spontaneous surprises are always happier than planned surprises.
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2018-08-22 21:36:16+00:00
Behave like children now and then. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone. But it can help both of you enjoy the relationship.
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2018-08-22 21:35:42+00:00
Learn to spend quality time with each other. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows.
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2018-08-22 21:35:04+00:00
Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration.
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2018-08-22 20:44:09+00:00
Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise.
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2018-08-22 20:43:12+00:00
Understand that your partner can have crushes on others too. It’s a difficult thought, but if you admire someone else, so can your partner.
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2018-08-22 20:42:34+00:00
Respect your partner whole heartedly.
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2018-08-22 20:41:54+00:00
Learn to forgive without holding grudges. As hard as it may be, forgiveness is one of the qualities of true love that matters most in a relationship.
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2018-08-20 21:28:00+00:00
Never intentionally try to make your partner feel bad or look bad. It’ll leave a lasting scar that can hurt the relationship.
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2018-08-20 21:15:32+00:00
Celebrate the special days. Birthdays and anniversaries may repeat itself too many times, but it’s these milestones that create memories.
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2018-08-20 21:05:22+00:00
Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit. Compliments are the best way to thank a special someone for the effort they’ve taken for you, however small it may be.
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2018-08-20 20:58:18+00:00
Look sexy for each other, and that includes a flat tummy. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.
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2018-08-20 20:55:46+00:00
Date each other even if you’ve been together for years. It keeps the love alive.
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2018-08-20 20:50:53+00:00
Never argue in public, but indulge in public display of affection.
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2018-08-20 20:39:07+00:00
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2018-08-20 20:24:42+00:00
Be the shoulder to lean on, no matter what. Tough times are the most testing phases of a relationship. Stand by your partner, and when the storm ends, love will shine brighter.
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2018-08-20 20:23:29+00:00
Never shy away from positive criticism. As long as you say it in a constructive manner, it’ll help your partner become a better person.
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2018-08-20 20:20:41+00:00
Say a white lie when you need to, especially if it’s a little lie that won’t change your relationship, but will make your partner feel happy.
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2018-08-20 20:19:58+00:00
Never take each other for granted. This is the easiest way to fall prey to affairs and arguments.
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2018-08-20 20:13:40+00:00
Learn to give space to each other to become better individuals. Even the closest of relationships need some alone time to miss each other now and then.
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2018-08-20 20:05:45+00:00
Communicate with each other and grow together in love, but never grow apart with lack of communication as the years pass by.
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2018-08-20 19:51:50+00:00
Make love regularly, but never allot times for it. Scheduling a time for sex makes it a chore that can start to become a bore.
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2018-08-20 19:44:34+00:00
End an argument as soon as possible, even if hugging your partner is the last thing on your mind.
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2018-08-20 19:39:58+00:00
Think from your partner’s perspective when it comes to matters of the heart.
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2018-08-20 19:24:45+00:00
Try your best to love your partner unconditionally even if it seems hard not to be selfish.
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2018-08-20 10:53:51+00:00
25 relationship rules that matter
Follow these relationship rules in your own relationship, irrespective of whether it’s new or old. As long as you’re committed to creating a better relationship, you’d have no trouble creating a magical experience out of love.
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2018-08-19 20:07:52+00:00
Relationship rules for successful love
There are a few relationship rules that can change a drifting relationship into a romantic one.
But as trivial and simple as they may seem, it’s something that needs a lot of effort and dedication to achieve.
Someone once said that falling in love should be effortless.
True, falling in love is easy, but staying in love always needs a bit of work. Just as long as working on a relationship feels less like work and more like fun, you should be just fine.
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2018-08-19 18:21:58+00:00
Like everything else, successful love too is based on a few rules. Follow these relationship rules and we assure you, love will feel like a bed of roses.
To many people, love is tricky and confusing.
And to many others, love is just a mirage.
They may be in a relationship and still never experience true love.
But every new relationship has the potential to blossom into something spectacular and wonderful, just as long as you remember the relationship rules that matter the most.
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2018-08-19 17:54:11+00:00
25 Must-Follow Relationship Rules for Happy Love
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2018-08-17 20:38:02+00:00
Hopefully you will keep some, of not all, of these 10 pieces of love advice in mind, the next time you feel stuck in your relationship. From being grateful to never looking back in anger, there’s no denying that Hollywood has taught us a thing or two about real life love.
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2018-08-17 20:35:32+00:00
Don’t look back in anger.
Learn from: Sienna Miller and Jude Law
Quote: “A huge part of my life and his life and it ended in a way that was awful. When something ends in a way like that, it’s important if you can, in a way, go back and revisit it and either shut that door or create a new room. So it was a very healthy, cathartic experience.”
In an interview with Esquire UK, Sienna opened up about the heartache that she went through during her horrible breakup with Jude. He was unfaithful to her on multiple occasions, and even though she loved him, she had to call it quits. The beautiful thing about it all is that despite how much he hurt her, she handled the breakup well by rising above it and letting go of all the pain and anger.
If you have been through a terrible breakup, you know just what she’s talking about. Remember that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel and one day, you too will look back on it all and say what a life changing lesson it was. Grow and learn from your experiences, not wallow in them.
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2018-08-17 20:27:30+00:00
Don’t give up.
Learn from: Joe Manganiello and Sofia Vergara
Quote: “The best love advice I’ve ever received is probably, ‘I’m not leaving the relationship; I’m just leaving the house.'”
Magic Mike hottie Joe Manganiello may not have been with Modern Family’s Sofia Vergara at the time he divulged that quote, but he’s probably keeping that tip in mind right now. The newly engaged couple is planning to wed this autumn, and there’s no doubt that not giving up is a high priority.
That’s the thing about being with someone. There will be great times and there will be hard times. The trick to keeping your love is to not walk away, but to stay and work at it. Although there are many reasons walking away is a good idea, particularly if infidelity and domestic abuse are involved, don’t leave over petty things.
Anything can be ironed out, if you put the effort into it. Your relationship with the one you love is priceless, so be sure to fix it and regularly maintain it if you want it to run smoothly.
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2018-08-17 20:17:59+00:00
Don’t rush things.
Learn from: Diane Kruger and Joshua Jackson
Quote: “I believe in a commitment that you make in your heart. There’s no paper that will make you stay.”
After 9 years and counting, Diane and Joshua are still going strong with zero intention of tying the knot.
What you can learn from this couple is that sometimes, there’s no need to rush into anything. Not wanting to get married doesn’t mean that they don’t love each other. It simply means that their relationship is strong enough to survive the insecurities of not being legally tied down.
Like what Diane said, there’s no need for a piece of paper to measure your love. Marriages crumble every day, but that doesn’t make them any more filled with love than relationships without any legal say. Look what happened to Kim Kardashian’s ridiculous 72-day marriage to that basketball player.
Just remember that if things are going great, there’s really no need to rush into anything. This applies to every aspect of your partnership. From meeting the parents to moving in together to adopting a pet to getting married, consider this tip the next time you have a huge decision to make.
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2018-08-17 20:13:16+00:00
Be grateful for you partner.
Learn from: Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt
Quote: “I am very lucky with Brad. He is a real gentleman, but he is also a real man’s man. He’s got the wonderful balance of being an extraordinary, great, loving father, a very, very intelligent man, and physically he’s a real man in all things that it means.”
In an interview with The Telegraph in 2011, Jolie talked about how grateful she is for her partner. Your sweetheart may not be Brad Pitt, but there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be thankful that you found someone willing to toughen it out with you.
Whether you’re thankful for your partner’s great health, kind heart, enigmatic mind, cooking skills, lovemaking talent or everything in between, be sure to let them know how much they mean to you. Once you start feeling grateful for your partner, you will realize that no matter what life throws at you, it will all work itself out, because you have each other to lean on.
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2018-08-17 19:52:53+00:00
Make time for yourself.
Learn from: Gwen Stefani and Gavin Rossdale
Quote: “It’s good to have those days when we both do our own things. I think that’s what keeps relationships going, when both people can be themselves and have their own individuality. That’s especially important for women. It’s hard to find time for yourself.”
After 3 kids and 12 years of marriage, Gwen touched on the importance of alone time in a recent interview. Carving time out for yourself is just as important as spending time together. Always remember that you’re an individual, not an extension of your spouse.
For example, don’t shun your friends when you’re in a relationship. I have a friend who is all about her lover. Despite being together for over two years, she always brings him along. From a just-girls catchup dinner to ladies’ martini night, he’s like a pesky little parasite who refuses to leave.
If you’re one of these women, listen to Gwen and always remember that it’s important to have time away from your lover. If your partner can’t function without you or doesn’t have friends, you know that you’re in a questionable relationship.
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2018-08-15 21:06:13+00:00
Always make the effort.
Learn from: David and Victoria Beckham
Quote: “If you love someone, you want to treat them, surprise them, remind them how you feel, whether that means a weekend away somewhere, or a bowl of fruit in the morning laid out in the shape of a heart. I know Victoria thinks I’m romantic like that.”
If 15 years of marriage and 4 kids have taught the Beckhams anything, it is to always make the effort for one another. Letting your partner know that they are loved is very important, as it reminds them why they’re with you. It’s a tit for tat scenario, because if you’re good to your partner, they’ll be good to you too.
We’re all human, and we expect to be treated and loved in the most obvious ways. Surprising them with a love note and treating your partner to breakfast in bed are simple things that you can do on a regular basis.
Another tip is to make the effort to look good for each other. From exercising regularly to eating right, feeling great inside and out and living a long and healthy life is one of the biggest and best efforts that you can make for your partner. The Beckhams certainly know this, as they both look delectable.
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2018-08-15 21:03:51+00:00
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2018-08-15 20:59:23+00:00
Maintain the friendship.
Learn from: Will and Jada Pinkett Smith
Quote: “Your partner has to be your best, best friend. And he’s my best friend.”
In a recent interview with Extra, Jada touched on how important friendship is in a partnership. Being married to someone for 18 years is no joke, and the Smiths can proudly say that they’ve done it and are still going strong.
If your partner isn’t your best friend, then who else can play the role? Best friends are supposed to be sitting next to you on life’s roller coaster ride, and if you have a partner who’s up for the challenge, count yourself very lucky and be grateful, won’t you? Just like the Smiths, be sure that your partner is your best friend, and you will be able to weather any storm.
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2018-08-15 20:56:42+00:00
Respect one another.
Learn from: Giuliana and Bill Rancic
Quote: “You’ve got to be good to each other… It really comes back to respect.”
Giuliana may not be a Hollywood A-lister, but her job as a television personality for E Entertainment has certainly sealed her a place in Hollywood’s spotlight. She undoubtedly knows a thing or two about keeping a relationship alive, as she has been married to her husband for 8 years, and cites respect as a priority.
Preserving what you have and being good to each other should be rated highly in your books. The same way you want your partner to respect you, you need to project the same thing back at them. Always show appreciation and let them know on a daily basis how much their opinion and trust means to you.
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2018-08-15 20:48:12+00:00
Communicate often.
Learn from: Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker
Quote: “Keep talking, I guess. I know how cliché that is. Too much silence is definitely not a good idea.”
Sarah’s Sex and the City character may have had some ups and downs in the love department, but the actress’ real life love life is certainly going very well. Her husband, whom she has been married to for 17 years, was quoted saying that talking is very important in a relationship.
Be sure to always share an open dialogue and communicate with your partner. Being with someone day in and day out means that you should be able to share everything. From the weirdest hopes and dreams to the down and dirty everyday stuff, communicate often, and do it well.
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2018-08-15 20:41:34+00:00
Keep things fresh.
Learn from: Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson
Quote: “Turn your relationship into a honeymoon again.”
Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson have been married for almost 27 years, and they seem to be just as in love as they were when they first got together. His advice of turning your relationship into a honeymoon again will reignite that passion that was once so strong. By keeping things fresh and exciting, you invite ease and fun into your relationship, ensuring that you will be just as happy as the Hanks’ three decades down the road.
If you can’t take time off for a romantic escapade, indulge in date night on a regular basis. There’s no reason why you can’t relive the good old days and remind one another why you fell in love in the first place.
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2018-08-15 20:31:46+00:00
Love lessons from different Hollywood couples
After years of gleefully devouring everything that these magazines and websites have to offer, I’ve come up with an interesting list of 10 celebrity couples worth learning from. Whether they can teach us a thing or two about finding love, keeping love or dealing with a failed relationship, here are 10 tips worth keeping in mind.
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2018-08-15 20:27:50+00:00
From finding love to keeping love to handling breakups, see how these stars have fared, and take the chance to learn from their experiences.
Hollywood is probably the worst place that you should head to for advice on love, but there’s no denying that the plethora of hookups, breakups and everything in between make for a great case study.
Just like us regular people, celebrities aren’t immune to heartbreak and romantic drama. From marriages that last for decades to tumultuous and abusive relationships, Hollywood’s inhabitants have seen it all, and as every move made is publicized, it means we’ve seen it all too. The world just can’t seem to get enough of trashy gossip magazines that report-slash-exaggerate the latest hookups and breakups.
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2018-08-15 19:30:27+00:00
10 Bits of Love Advice from Famous Hollywood Couples
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2018-08-13 22:07:11+00:00
Now that you know how to flirt with girls, what are you waiting for? Get out there, and get flirting! Good luck!
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2018-08-13 22:06:05+00:00
Tease her.
Gently teasing a girl is a great way to start flirting with her. Everyone knows that little boys in the playground pull the pigtails of the little girls they have a crush on – so by mocking her gently, you are actually letting her know that you like her! Strange but true!
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2018-08-13 22:05:19+00:00
Text her.
Text conversations are a great way to get your flirt on, and for the shy guy, it can be so much easier than starting a conversation face to face. Send her a flirty, funny text, and if she responds in kind, you can ramp up the flirting even more!
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2018-08-13 22:04:30+00:00
Be interested in her
interests.
Get to know what she loves to do in her free time, her hobbies, interests, and what she’s passionate about. Then you’ll not only have loads to talk about, she’ll think you have lots in common too!
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2018-08-13 22:03:40+00:00
Buy her a gift.
A cute and thoughtful gift can be a great tip for how to flirt with a girl. Keep it funny and silly or related to a conversation you’ve had to make it light and flirty – don’t buy her something too serious or expensive early on, as it might scare her off.
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2018-08-13 22:02:46+00:00
Buy her a drink.
Sometimes simple is best. If you want to keep things cool and casual and simply start a conversation with her, just ask her if she’d like a drink and take it from there.
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2018-08-13 21:54:46+00:00
Do her a favor.
Flirting comes in many different forms, and an act of kindness or doing her a massive favor shows that you are into her and are willing to do things for her to win her affections!
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2018-08-13 21:53:43+00:00
Get to know her family.
Getting to know her family is another way of showing that you’re interested in her and are willing to put time and effort into finding out about her!
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2018-08-13 21:52:41+00:00
Ask her questions.
If you really want to know how to flirt with girls, then you need to show that you are interested in her by asking her lots of questions.
She’ll appreciate you taking the time and making the effort to get to know her better. Make sure you pay attention to her answers, and then remember to ask her related questions the next time you meet – that will show you have been listening and weren’t just going through the motions!
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2018-08-13 21:41:47+00:00
Be nice to her friends.
Always, always make time for her friends. If she can see that you are making an effort with her friends, it will signal to her that you really like her and are willing to put the time in. If she is on the fence about you, she’ll ask her friends for advice so it’s a really good idea to have them on your side at all times!
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2018-08-13 21:40:41+00:00
Compliment her.
Compliments are always one of the best tips for how to flirt with girls, so make sure you let her know that you think she is attractive. If you don’t want to be too forward, something simple such as ‘you look nice today’ or ‘I really like your shoes’ will let her know you find her attractive without saying something that she might not like.
Make sure your compliments are sweet and thoughtful. Complimenting her on intimate parts of her body, or being sleazy will have the opposite effect for what you are trying to achieve.
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2018-08-13 21:01:22+00:00
Let her borrow your clothes.
She’ll love wearing that big cozy jumper of yours, so always offer it to her if it’s a little cold. Make sure it smells of you too, and if she likes you, she’ll probably want to keep hold of it so she can cuddle up to it in bed and dream of you!
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2018-08-13 20:53:51+00:00
Make her laugh.
Humor is the number one thing that most women cite when asked what they are looking for in a guy, so this is a must when learning how to flirt with girls. If you can make her laugh she’ll instantly feel more relaxed in front of you and attracted to you too.
You don’t have to be a stand up comedian to make her laugh, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Humor should be natural and easy and keep the conversation flowing, rather than bombarding her with loads of rehearsed one-liners.
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2018-08-12 18:00:17+00:00
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2018-08-11 20:27:52+00:00
Touch her.
Another easy way to flirt with girls is to touch them. A brush of the hand, or if you are sitting next to one another let your leg gently touch hers. If she likes you too, she won’t move it away.
If you know her a little better, being a bit touchy-feely also works. Give her cuddles, put your arm around her when you are talking to her and so on. Obviously, only keep doing this if she doesn’t move away – the last thing you want to do is make her feel uncomfortable, and if she reciprocates you know you are onto a winner.
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2018-08-11 20:18:30+00:00
Use good body language.
Make sure you pay attention to your body language when you are talking to her. It can be so easy if you’re nervous to clam up and look like you’re not interested. Crossing your arms, looking at your feet, and turning away from her and so on are all no no’s.
Be open and use lots of eye contact – hold her gaze! Use your body to flirt with her and let her know you are interested.
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2018-08-11 20:17:44+00:00
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2018-08-11 20:11:48+00:00
Smile.
Smiling at her is a great place to start, especially if you are feeling nervous. Make sure when you catch her eye that you maintain eye contact and don’t be the first to look away. Smile at her confidently.
If she smiles back, then you can look away and then in a few minutes look at her and smile at her again. This will let her know you are interested. However, you can’t keep doing it all night as it might creep her out, so be prepared to approach her if she gives you a smile back and start a conversation!
Smiling is also important when you are actually talking to her too, it shows you are a fun and friendly guy and it will make her feel more relaxed.
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2018-08-11 19:48:16+00:00
How to flirt with girls – 15 secrets that make all the difference
The good news is you can learn about ways to flirt, and practice your flirting techniques until you feel super confident and ready to approach the girl that you like. With that in mind, we’ve come up with 15 great tips for how to flirt with girls.
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2018-08-11 19:16:35+00:00
Flirting with a pretty girl you like can feel a little daunting. Here are 15 tips and tricks for how to flirt with girls and make them fall for you.
We’ve all been there. You’ve got a massive crush on that hot girl and you really want to let her know that you like her. But it’s not exactly cool to just go up to her and say it straight to her face. You want to be able to subtly flirt with her, and test the waters to see if you are getting a good signal back before you take the plunge and let her know how you really feel.
However, while flirting might come naturally to some people, to others it can feel horrible. Just the idea of trying to flirt with girls gets your palms all sweaty, your mouth dries up, and you start stuttering and stumbling over your words – not exactly the image of the cool, fun, relaxed guy that you are trying to portray.
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2018-08-10 21:23:31+00:00
How to Flirt with Girls: 15 Secrets to Make Any Girl Fall for You
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2018-08-08 20:17:14+00:00
Nobody will ever have a completely perfect orgasm face like they do in the movies. That’s just not real. However, you can practice making an attractive face that your partner will love.
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2018-08-08 20:16:19+00:00
Try not to worry about it too much.
Your orgasm face isn’t that big of a deal. Truthfully, most people are going to like it simply because they’re the ones making you cum. So don’t worry about it. Try to think about how great it feels and less about what your face looks like.
Have confidence in what you look like during sex. Push any negative thoughts about your sex face aside and focus on how great the sex actually is.
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2018-08-08 20:15:29+00:00
If all else fails, keep it simple.
If you really aren’t sure how to make your orgasm face super sexy, just keep it simple. Don’t go for anything crazy. Just stick to a nice, relaxed face. There’s no need to make it super complicated and contort your face in 5 different ways within a 30 second time period.
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2018-08-08 20:14:27+00:00
Don’t make ridiculous sounds, either.
If you think making sexy noises is going to help your orgasm face, think again. Sure, you can make your normal sex sounds that are genuine but don’t go overboard and start moaning like crazy.
Not only does this sound fake, it’ll look fake and your partner will be insulted. Keep it real but keep it relaxed.
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2018-08-08 20:13:40+00:00
Ask your partner if they like your orgasm face.
If you’re really concerned about what your significant other thinks, just ask them. Chances are, they’ll probably say something if it’s so bad they find it unattractive. However, if it’s still worrying you, just ask.
It’s really not that hard to ask if they like your face when you cum. To be honest, most people might find your orgasm face sexy simply because they know you’re having an orgasm – and that they caused it.
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2018-08-08 20:11:50+00:00
Don’t fake it.
Believe me when I say your partner will be able to tell. If you try to look like the people in porn when you orgasm, it’ll be super obvious that it’s not actually happening for you. Many porn stars – specifically the women – don’t actually finish. So if you try to replicate their faces, you’re just recreating a fake orgasm. Don’t do that.
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2018-08-08 20:11:10+00:00
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2018-08-08 20:08:12+00:00
Practice while masturbating.
If you want to take it to extremes, get a mirror and practice your sex face while orgasming. That means you’ll have to masturbate to make it happen. Simply place a mirror beside your bed or masturbate in an area that has a mirror already.
Then while you’re doing it, just look at yourself. Is your face attractive? Does it scrunch up a lot? If you don’t like the way it looks, keep practicing a more attractive face while you masturbate and it’ll help you make a great orgasm face when you have sex.
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2018-08-08 20:07:28+00:00
Practice in front of a mirror.
This is something I think most people do anyways. Everyone wants to know what they look like during sex – especially when they orgasm. So just look in front of a mirror to figure it out.
You can easily replicate the faces you make during sex if you’ve been paying attention to your facial muscles. Simply repeat those muscle movements to get a feel for what your face looks like.
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2018-08-08 20:06:27+00:00
Pay attention to your facial muscles.
Just be conscious of your facial muscles when you’re having sex. Are they relaxed? Are your teeth clenched? Do you raise your eyebrows really high?
Paying attention to what you’re doing can help you figure out what your face looks like normally. Realizing that your orgasm face is a little tight and painful-looking can help you alter it in order to have a great o-face.
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2018-08-08 19:36:11+00:00
Make sure you actually ARE orgasming.
Don’t be so concerned with your orgasm face that you can’t finish. If you really want to perfect the art of a sexy face when you cum, you’ll have to actually orgasm.
Without it, you’ll just be twisting your face up. Believe it or not, doing that makes it pretty obvious that it’s not real. Which means it’ll be less attractive than a bad sex face even is.
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2018-08-08 19:36:11+00:00
Stay relaxed.
If you’re really uptight about what your face looks like when you finish, you won’t actually be able to orgasm. You need to be relaxed and ready to have a good time. This way, your face will also look a lot less strained.
When you stay relaxed, you have an easier time orgasming. And if it’s an easy orgasm you don’t have to work a lot for, your face will look a lot more relaxed – which is also sexier.
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2018-08-08 19:18:52+00:00
How to perfect your orgasm face and look amazing in bed
If you want to look incredible while having an orgasm, you may need to work at it. Sometimes people don’t naturally have a great O-face. These are some helpful tips to mastering a gorgeous orgasm face.
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2018-08-08 19:17:50+00:00
Attraction doesn’t stop once you get into bed with someone
You may think you landed yourself the perfect hookup, someone you can have loads of sex with. However, it could end up less than satisfactory if they don’t like your orgasm face.
The truth is, attracting a partner doesn’t just stop when you finally get to have sex with them. Even if everything is perfect up until that point, the sex can alter it. Therefore, you want to make sure your orgasm face is incredible in order to get them to stick around.
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2018-08-08 19:16:52+00:00
Everyone has a very specific orgasm face. Some are amazing and some need a little work. Here’s how you can perfect yours and leave them wanting more.
A sexy orgasm face can mean the difference between a one-time romp and a steady sex life. If your face is very unattractive when you have an orgasm, it can be a huge turn off to the person watching you.
Your sex face should be really sexy. You should be conveying the fact that you’re feeling amazing through the expression on your face. However, some people naturally have an orgasm face that isn’t the most attractive. It looks more like they’re in pain than anything else
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2018-08-08 09:12:34+00:00
How to Perfect Your Orgasm Face and Make Them Want More of You
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2018-08-02 21:57:11+00:00
Getting your ex back will be ten times harder than the first time you got them to like you. But by following these steps, you have a guide for the things that you can do that are likely to bring about the outcome you want.
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2018-08-02 21:56:37+00:00
He or she is the one.
One of the many reasons people break up is because of commitment issues. Your ex may have left because they didn’t think you’d commit completely. You can change their mind by actually proposing marriage. And yes, even women can do this, but it takes a woman with a lot of guts to pull this off.
But before you start planning a huge proposal, you have to consider the odds that your ex may or may not accept it. Don’t use your proposal to pressure your ex, as this may just lead to you getting disappointed.
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2018-08-02 21:55:38+00:00
Emphasize why you want to get back together.
Throughout all these fun dates and subtly romantic hints, your ex might still not understand why you’re trying to win them back. It’s clear that you’re not just after a tumble in bed, but you have to make it clear that your intentions include getting back together.
This is ultimately all up to you and your own personal reasons. But one of the most effective things you might say is the fact that life just isn’t the same without your ex’s presence. You can explain how different it was and how much better it could be, if you were to reconcile.
Another reason you can state is that you’ve never been able to find anyone else who makes you feel the way your ex feels. Of course, you’ll have to own up to the fact that you have been dating other people. But you’re both adults and your ex is bound to understand.
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2018-08-02 21:54:42+00:00
Try to woo your ex again.
Even if you show your ex that you’ve changed for the better, you also have to show that the parts your ex likes are still there. Look back at how you were able to catch your ex’s attention and use this to attract them a second time.
You may have met during a music event, and you can go to another one to relive the memories. Your ex may have fallen for your great taste in movies and literature, and you can regale them with stories of what you’ve seen and read. Maybe your ex fell in love with your carefree, devil may care attitude. You can show that side of you by going out on a spontaneous trip, but still keeping your responsibilities in mind.
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2018-08-02 21:53:42+00:00
Show your ex how much you’ve changed.
If you’re still the same person whom your ex decided to leave, then asking for them to take you back is like asking them to go through the pointless motions all over again. You can do this by highlighting some of the things that you’ve changed for the better.
For instance, you may show signs that you’re now more sensitive to their feelings by showing empathy. You may tell your ex that you’ve decided to join a program for controlling bad habits like smoking, drinking, gambling or even anger issues. You can also talk about how you’ve decided to pursue a career. This can then make your ex consider that giving you a second chance might not be such a bad idea.
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2018-08-02 21:13:50+00:00
Reminisce about the good times.
When you’re on your third date, or maybe even on your first, if you want to take it fast, you might want to bring up your old relationship. The way your ex responds to this prompt depends on how your relationship was. Their reaction actually clues you in on your chances of getting back together.
If they recall the good old days, they might still see you as someone they can fall back in love with. On the other hand, if your ex seems to see your relationship as a waste of time or a very trying phase in their life, then you need to work on convincing your ex that it won’t be like that the second time around.
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2018-08-02 21:13:01+00:00
Reconnect with your ex’s friends.
Once you’re back to hanging out with each other, it may also be a good idea to get back in touch with your ex’s friends and family. Don’t act like your breakup never happened. Instead, act like someone who has been away for a while, but would just like to catch up. Keep your cool, and don’t act all possessive.
One of the key ways you can try to get back with your ex is by getting to their friends. Your ex may be persuaded by a friend who seems to think that you’ve changed for the better or that a second try might do you both good.
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2018-08-02 21:11:49+00:00
Ask your ex out over the phone.
Once you get to messaging each other on a more or less regular basis, give your ex a call. It’s up to you if you want your ex to hear just how smitten you still are with hearing their voice. After the preliminary chitchat, ask your ex to hang out with you, even if it’s just as friends.
Yes, it may be deceptive to tell your ex that it’s just as friends, but immediately confessing that you’re still attracted to them might take your ex by surprise. The key here is going through the motions slowly, but surely. Also, make sure that the date has a very casual feel to it. Avoid any romantic settings. If possible, have the “friendly date” in a coffee shop or a restaurant during daylight hours
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2018-08-02 21:09:45+00:00
If the breakup isn’t recent, send your ex a text or a private message.
Calling or just showing up at your ex’s place may be too forward and too confrontational. It might make your ex completely defensive and just shoot you down. Instead, it’s better if you send a message, just to give your ex some time to think of whether to reply or not.
If your ex replies amicably enough, then great! If not, don’t take it too personally. Your ex might be suspicious of your message. Try to send another message at another time, and keep your fingers crossed that you’ll get a response. If after about three messages spanning over the course of a week or two you still get no response, there’s a huge chance that getting back together is out of the question.
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2018-08-02 21:08:33+00:00
Start off with an apology.
This would only apply if the wound of your breakup is still pretty recent. Breakups are a two-way thing. Even if it was caused by your ex, there’s still a possibility that you let go of words that you wish you could take back. To ease you back into your ex’s good graces, it’s always a good idea to apologize for the things you may have said and done to contribute to the demise of your relationship.
Be as sincere as you can be, and if possible, try to do this in person. The fact that your ex seems interested in talking to you may be a sign that there’s a possibility that they will take you back. Who knows, you might even reconcile right then and there!
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2018-08-02 21:06:55+00:00
How to get your ex back
If you’ve answered “yes” to all the questions above, here’s how you can try to get back into your ex’s loving arms. Once you’ve made up your mind to try and give it another shot with a past love, you can follow these steps to ensure that you do it right.
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2018-08-02 21:05:35+00:00
Do you miss how your ex would always make you laugh? Do you miss the warmth of your ex’s embrace? Do you long for those hours you spent talking about sweet nothings? Do your friends and family ever seem to wistfully ask why it never worked out between you two? Do you honestly believe, with all your heart, that getting back together with your ex is a perfectly sane and reasonable thing to do?
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2018-08-01 18:50:06+00:00
Though they say that getting back with your ex is a bad idea, there are still instances when you just can’t let them go, no matter how hard you try.
As a word of warning to all our readers, looking to get back together with your ex needs a lot of careful consideration. After all, there is a reason you broke up in the first place. However, there’s no denying the attraction for someone you’ve once loved and may still love.
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2018-08-01 18:16:45+00:00
The Step-by-Step Guide to Get Your Ex to Love You Again
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